Road to happiness

After many years of experience in my life, let me tell this to folks who are reading this blog, that whatever you are doing, develop a liking towards it and do. Once if you start liking your job, then there is no work but all time playing only. Most of us don't get what we expect in our lives, starting from a mobile phone to motor cycle. But once when we start loving them, it will be so precious that we won't be able to give them up.

I did not like my school and I did not want to go to school everyday. After my school days are over, when I turn back and see now, I believe that they are the best part in my whole life. This happens to many of us. We keep on blaming about one particular thing and once it is over, we will shamelessly tell that those were the amazing moments in our life.

In your career or employment, if you are in deep trouble or you think that you are a miserable failure, it is up to you to turn the situation in favor of your side. A good example is a loud mouthed boss who never gets satisfied. Given a chance, you may even get a shotgun and shoot his brain off. But, that is not the solution. For certain circumstances, we need to go "off the track" , i.e, find his liking and disliking and empathize why he is shouting. Is it his inherent nature or because of his superior pressure he is using you as an outlet. Once you find answers for all these, you will be able to enjoy your office.

Some people complain that they have miserably failed in their lives even after getting many chances. My dear friends, go through those failures and you will amass rich experience. Learn the trick of turning everything in favor of you. The failures will be with respect to the most desired way in which you wanted to cruise in the journey called life. If that way is not working, look for constructive alternatives which might even bring some of your hidden talents in you.

Therefore, as everything has a way in, it also has a way out. It is just the question of time, as to how are you coming to the world and contributing towards it.

Disclaimer: If rape is inevitable, enjoy it!!! ;)